I think you are supposed to do the dandy step s early enough that the h follow up or 2k are hitting meaty. The h follow up has 6 active frames so it shouldn't be too hard to time; 2k only has 2 so that might be a bit harder.
Edit: Or can you be grabbed out of active frames of a properly times meaty in this game? That seems really brutal if so.
Edit again: actually I guess that's how it is in st too, got to get used to zero frame throws again woo