I've only been playing Ramlethal for a little bit of time, so I'm no expert by far, and only recently has Guilty Gear made sense to me as a player who is trying to get better at the game. (Mostly play Street Fighter or Mortal Kombat) But I do agree with some of the stuff that is on here. I think that a lot of wins that we Ram's get are hard fought over. I sense that I have to work a lot harder at getting a win than other characters in the game. With that said though, it does come down to the neutral game and knowing your MU. I like the Youtube videos I have found where players are using Ram and doing well but I see Daiji lose more than win. He does all of this work with Ram, and then something silly happens and the momentum swings to the other side.
I don't seem to have the problem of not having enough meter, but that is probably because I abuse S and HS when they are equipped to me and I foolishly rush down (Still learning the MU's). I mostly keep my swords equipped until I can get my opponent into the corner. But if in neutral and if I deploy its usually only HS and its usually if the opponent is full screen. 2S I typically use for meaty wake up situations and I try to position myself where the tip of my sword would hit them, if HS is equipped, I go straight into 2HS after the 2S. If HS is not equipped, I'll try to link into 5D to get myself at -13 instead of -41. But yeah that's probably why I don't have as much of an issue with meter. Oh and I'm fishing a lot with my f5S for CH>Dauro. I don't get a lot of CH and I end up in their face because I'm buffering into Dauro, again not the wisest move though.
But yeah this comes from just being overly aggressive and not very wise decisions on when to go in and that is mostly rooted in unfamiliarity with the MU's. Hopefully some of that is helpful. I want to contribute and learn as much as I can cause I do want to get better. (And not get beat by Online Sol's as much.........)