I done some dumb things when I started playing P4A for the first time. Since your learning Kanji, do your best to keep you bad habits to a minimum. I've played in over 100 matches, and i'm still doing stupid things (Like trying IK's, or spamming j.214A/B) but its not nearly as often as before. That's due to Training mode and online experience.
Since newer players are showing their gameplay, my scrubby ass should show some of mine.
Kanji Mirror match! So hype!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=trZ1_V1y4P0
D command grab beats super, It's a shame he didn't know that.
Beating a absolutely horrible Chie
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DW0U6UURp4Y
This video is just showing the FC combo I use. It's very simple to do, and does respectable damage. I'm still working on my other FC combos in training mode, having trouble with the execution.
My match against Akihiko
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kqTQ9rU7E7M
I lost to the same guy twice before this match. He was the first Akihiko that I played that knew he had a C attack he could use. The first round was a mirror of my previous matches with this guy, throwing out 5C when he was too close and eating one too many j.C and 5.C shots from Caesar. Lets just say I was fortunate that I won, but I need to check out some stuff with Aki in training mode.
My match against Yukiko
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h_sXBMJb7r8
I lost to this guy in a previous match, due to the Super-Fire Break into another super. This time around, I had enough meter to punish him with j.214SB.
Edit: I just realized I could have punished her with j.C to get FC (around the 30 second mark). I opted for j.214SB instead.
In all of these matches, you'll see that I don't follow up a command grab with anything. I'm still having problems getting Cruel Attack to come out. Its probably a timing issue.
Let me know if there is anything I need to work on.