But if it was your match to lose and you lost it, you WERE outplayed. That's what I'm getting at. The result of the match isn't predetermined like some prophecy that gets derailed when you lose. The opponent could just as easily go one mistake farther back and say, "It was MY match to win, until I made that mistake." What you're being annoyed by is being outplayed to that extent in that match. Like when someone makes a huge runback from 1%.