lol~
I don't get the need to emphasis that you can't make X event cus you'll be at Y event with women. What the fuck is the point? Just say you're busy. Are you trying to prove something? If you're saying it as a joke, then that's okay I guess... but it doesn't really seem like it. This is a fighting game community; no one is going to care if vaginas fly at you on a daily basis.
Just my two cents.
Nope!
On a serious note, don't bring that up here. No one is going to come white knight you on DL (they might on SRK though), and really something like that shouldn't bother you in the first place. Don't be that one person that gets offended by racist jokes and ruins the entire party. :o