No, insults are insults regardless of whether you 'want' to be insulted.... The ones here in particular are very opinionated, but saying people don't enjoy things as much as "we" do, or that they like stupid shit is insulting to others. Whether it's your intention or not, those words are stating that they don't have as much fun as "us" due to what they like or how they play, and further, that they like stupid things.
I'll say I've only read the opening post and the past three or so before I made a post in the thread, so maybe some of this was already gone over...
There are some who can have more "legitimate enjoyment" mashing buttons in Marvel than some of the most technical players in Guilty Gear, that's just how entertainment works, you can't quantify fun or "appreciation" on a graph.