True, really I still think it comes down to just knowing what your options are at any time, and which of your options beat which of their options. The important thing that I think has still been missed is that if you're going to do a frame trap.. there needs to be another option for the frame trap to be a trap. There has to be a reason that a good, knowledgeable player would want to put something out there.
The noel one is a good example though, you do 5cc 22c to beat noel's 2d, which she tries to use to counter 6b, which is the other option you want to be using.
for 5b, your next option that can be beat by mashing 2a is a. restart pressure, b. throw, c. overhead. Your option to beat 2a is a. 5bb, 2. 2b, 3. 6b, 4. 5c.. etc.....Their options to beat any of those are: dp.etc